A month ago today we saw, kissed and hugged for the first time to our little Emperor and a month since he is with us.
There are times I think if you really be doing, if we act correctly or not with him, because this time the language is actually being a major barrier for us. There are some moments that I can not find what you're wanting me to say and what happened just bad when I see tears of anger or helplessness because I did not understand, and all I can do is hug and kiss ...
But after a month of living together despite ididoma barrier, we have realized that the adaptation that in principle seems to be much faster and better than with our son Biel.
there anything I have not explained and I feel the urge especially l @ s we have been following and that you are still pending allocation. And regarding the day of delivery.
I'm not one to give advice, but after our two adoptive experiences and thinking of that in the future will go to China to pick up your treasures, remember to tell you that I keep the first day we saw and embraced by first time our son Biel has nothing to do with the first day I saw and hugged our son Marc Wenyu.
I love my children equally and with folly and in our case for how it went mostly to the track of the paperwork I can assure you the illusion of having each of my children before to hug and kiss, has been the same. But if I remember has been the first time with Biel are very warm and sweet, in the case of Marc has not happened.
And it has been for the place and the way of delivery, because if in the case of Biel was us our prince, our fairy godmother and the social worker's home, that is all very familiar and intimate. For Marc the place of delivery, and always in my way of seeing, was a cold and without any privacy. A little place full of officials, American and English marriages nervous waiting finally embrace their small @ s, and many frightened and crying children looking at all the sites nervous not knowing what is happening.
On the Internet there are many places where you can see small supply of families of different nationalities and you always get an idea of \u200b\u200bwhat will be the first time and I get excited, and the truth is that in our case expected to have a shared intimacy with our friends for adventure and it was not. I also expect another way to deliver the s obesity and make arrangements (delivery of gift, notary ...) and it was not.
Truth is that when I see photos of that day, I try to stay with the three or four best we have, where Marc caress, wiping the tears trying to reassure him, giving him toys and sweets and playing with him. And not to some like we have dichosito giving "donation dollars" to know where will go ...
Finally things are well, and I guess it will remain so for much longer.
Now our dream is another of still hear the laughter of our children and our adventurous friends, watching them grow full of happiness and health, health loooong.
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